Male Evolution: Masculine + Feminine = Consummate?

     A couple days ago, I was having a intense conversation with my friend.  He is an avid collector of closeted, undercover gay men; he loves to find them on Craig's List and Adam4Adam and arrange strange hook-ups to see how far they will go to not get caught.  The topic of this discussion was a DL brother who has managed to steal his heart. 
     He was smitten with a fine black man from Harlem, who was a professional musician with a "heart of gold".  Furious, he couldn't restrain his volume, "Everyone should already know he's gay!  He's far too artistic to be straight!  C'mon, he gets along with women without trying to fuck them!  He's sensitive and emotional!  Just come out the closet already!"  The light bulb flashed over my head; could it be that bisexuals and homosexuals are the next step in evolution?
     He went on and on about the sure fire ways of knowing if a man is straight or gay.  Cleanliness.  Respectfulness.  Articulate.  Sympathetic.  There are a tons of great qualities that serve as red flags.  Furthermore, the women I know wouldn't touch a "perfect" man with a ten foot pole, because it screams "homosexual".  It seems they all have a heart wrenching tale about the "guy who had it all".
     Beyond watching football and loving to shop; there is a great deal more to masculinity and femininity.  The age old symbol, the yin and yang, perfectly displays the complementary characteristics and the balance achieved together.
    
The dark side is the feminine aspect:

Creative
Nurturing
Yielding
Openness

The lighter side is the masculine aspect:

Focused
Authoritative
Aggressive
Solid

     It is my belief that men and women that are bisexual or homosexual are more available to express the qualities from both sides of the spectrum.  Men allow themselves to be more nurturing and creative and women allow themselves to be more aggressive and firm.  To me, that makes a higher evolved person.  Having access to both The Yin and The Yang will make a person more adaptable, more independent and more understanding of how the world works. 

No wonder why everyone who has had a great impact on the world, turns out to be bi.
    

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

I dont think we can solely base it off of the fact that they were bi. You dont always have to taste both sides just to be great. Now he may have found a sure fire formula to catching them....obviously cause he gets so many ...but could it be that his formula gets him most of the same type...usually they always have one thing in common......so....

THEGAYTEKEEPER said...

I LOVE HOW YOU KEEP GIVING US ENTRY AFTER ENTRY THAT SPARKS THE MIND AND OTHER BODY PARTS...

Forbidden Light said...

Thank you, Gayte! I definitely learned a thing or two from your site...

@Anonymous: My theory isn't really into bisexuality in specific; it's about people having the ability to step out of gender roles and expanding into end of the gamut...

Cogent Ascending said...

everyone turned out to be bi?
Wishful thinking at best my friend.
They all turned out to be gay.
Lesbians have never done anything useful to advance man's grasp on the creative pursuits.

Forbidden Light said...

@Cogent: LOL! Will your crusades against bisexuals ever end? (You knew what I meant!)

Futhermore, there are so many of our historican heroes who have been speculated to be of "alternative" orientation. Lord knows, how many of our heroines are actually lesbian...Fun Fact: Angela Davis and Alice Walker are bi/lesbian! Both of tremendous contribution...

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